Thursday, 16 August 2012

differences are the same

Differences are the same. We jump and sweat each day trying to invite people into our own reality. We are not content with what we have therefore we ridicule, question, and challenge others reality to make sense of our own. Is it necessary though that we mock the beliefs and values of others? is it some kind of rule within our own reality that to lobby people get them to conform is some kind of reward or sign that we are becoming more holier or purified a tag written "saint" perhaps. what is happening to tolerance? is it the fear perhaps that seeing a person being true to his/her own reality and you  acknowledging it will some how force you to give up the power you badly want to have...what happened to accepting people as they are loving them and not judging them? How much truth is the truth that someone else's truth seems not to be valid to you? trying to be a good person while you cannot be a tolerant person is futile in all its efforts. Differences are the same you judge me for being a harlot but you are not a virgin either, you mock my sexuality but you practise the same positions with your preferred gender. you ask that woman who remains in an abusive relationship why are you still with this man? yet your own boyfreind brings a different bum to your bed each week. differences are the same sin is sin but we sin differently which in the end makes it the same on the whole. Before you judge someone be intolerant or narrow minded remember that you are no less different but would like to think that you are...

1 comment:

Nandie.. said...

I agree as far as not being judgemental towards another's reality is concerned but the torelance part I'm not so sure of..especially when things like abuse come into the picture...Fine, our realities are different but other realities are better than others, let's face it..If I'm in a love relationship, one that I feel valued, loved and appreciated in am I wrong for wanting that very same thing for a close friend of mine whose in a toxic relationship? - I don't think so.. I ought to convince him/her that he/she deserves better, not because I want them to be like me but because they really deserves better.. Not a single person on the face of this earth enjoys abuse or feeling unappreciated,(no matter who they are),....it would be inhumane to watch, stand aside and mind my own business, more so if I tolerate a loved one in a horrible reality, when I myself know of a better reality of what true love is..*honour, respect,appreciation, value*